Originally posted on my fetlife profile . While I'm recovering from this upper respiratory thing that hit me this weekend, I've been giving plenty of thought on what I need. This is a common mental...I am sure I would benefit from that as much as my primary partner. Question is how much can you bend and shift your perspective while remaining within your comfort level and satisfying your needs?

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  {{{{{***Disclaimer***(pssst please read all of it before getting upset, as it is not a judgement on the Daddy Dom/me lifestyle. It is about my inner struggle and journey as I deal with past abuse...am reluctant to anyways.  Daddy Dom/mes and 'baby girls/grrls' and 'bois': Any advice, suggestions, consoling, bitch slaps...anything? I am really in need of help here. Anyone else:  Same deal as above.

The trolls are back in town, I feel like I've gotten this one before, but at long last from CollarMe: "Im not sure what i could say to get your attention, so i might as well be blunt and up front and... and the beach. I can be what it is you desire, i have learned everyone likes something different. Im a very open and have a good sense of humor. If your interested, look me up on yahoo messenger.

From Collar Me: "I am a 45 year old Daddy Dom. I am looking for my special little girl and wonder if you might be her. I am looking for someone that would love her daddy and do anything to please him...anything to make my little girl feel loved protected and cared for. I hope to hear from you soon and if your not interested then just let me know and I will simply wish you good luck in your search.

...and it is gleeful.  This revelation came about during a phonecall with my Daddy Dom, where we got onto how bad things can always be (at least partially) put into perspective by the thought: "It could...a "whooooosh" and little voices being unashamedly gleeful and yelling things like "yippeeee".  Apparently though, if we were being photographer-y, the spirit of everything would be medium grey!

  I don't understand what the attraction is to dating.  The nerves start 24 hrs before.  There are clothes to be picked out.  Hair to worry over.  I'm so much more comfortable just *being* in a relationship...are TONS of things I could do - mail to go through, bills to pay, WORK of all things ... I'm just not motivated. Like a child with a new toy.  How long will it take me to burn through THIS one? LaLa

Finding the right person to be with in your life is never easy - there are thousands to choose from and which one is the right one?  Throw into that mix the whole bdsm kink and the dating pool got a LOT...He can rescue me.  That is what I truely want. I want my knight.  I want someone else to fight the dragons.  I'm tired.  I'm burning out. What good is being a princess if you don't belong anywhere