This was a comment gone awry from importedmemory 's latest post.  Here it is: Mom called me last night to drive home the baby issue again herself, and I told her, right now I am having to much...to be, and most important that this will not "fix" things between us.  By me doing this, we aren't going to magically become best friends.  She's a selfish bitch who takes advantage of everyone she can.