So I finally cornered Pat earlier this spring, and got him to agree to finally set the date once his sister got married. Because, as much as we both love Erin, if we did anything to steal her thunder....excited, and nervous, and sad cause I know some people won't be able to come.  It'll be fun, though. I'm thinking it'll be a "Tim Burton hosts Carnival" kind of theme. I can't wait to get started